Why is bondage fun?
Lots of reasons. For many people, the knowledge that they are helpless, that someone else can do things with their body and they can’t prevent them, is a powerful turn-on. “I’m going to make you come and there’s
nothing you can do about it.” It’s a very strong statement of trust to let someone bind you helplessly, or even non-helplessly.

How erotic, to feel yourself spread open, wanton and wet, and to see your lover kneeling between your legs, ready to use you for their pleasure–or to pleasure you unendurably….

For others, the simple sensation of bondage feels good.

Tight constriction can create very intense stimulation, and lots of tight bondage can be a sensory trip, just as a whipping scene can be. Bondage can feel comforting, pleasantly confining; you don’t need to worry about anything, since what can you do? You’re all tied up, and all that’s left is to enjoy.

For others, it’s a charge to struggle, to let your body lose control. It can really intensify an orgasm when you come with every muscle straining against your bonds, trying to get your hands free to smash your lover’s face into your crotch, your body shaking. If you weren’t tied down you’d hurt yourself!

An especially intense form of bondage is verbal bondage: putting your partner in some position (spread-eagled, kneeling, whatever) and commanding them not to move… and then tormenting them!  One kinky variation on this is as follows: have your partner hold their hands out in front of them, fingers splayed, each fingertip touching the opposite
fingertip. Put a penny between each pair of fingertips so they’re holding five pennies. Now order them not to let a single one drop, or pain or some punishment will happen and then go to work!  This works best
on a hard floor so you can hear the coin drop!

Allot of care needs to be taken before you embark on bondage games.